we can move together as ONE or we can move ALONE together
What are we doing if we are not communicating?
what are we doing if we have not let our inner child connect to one another and heal us as one?
what are we doing if we are not smiling 90% of our “togetherness”?
what are we doing if we are not making business plans, or talking about our future or making hot funky love?
Just WHAT IN THE FUCK are we doing?
These are questions we need to ask ourselves. like, what are we really doing together if we are not creating, smiling, making money, making love, making conversations Me personally, I don’t like my time being wasted! I think if a couple can not get along they must move ALONE! Some folk like being alone until they need someone. It is my personal opinion that most of us don’t know how to use one another instead we misuse to the fullest.
The facts are, if you choose to still be connected to that person knowing all these things, now the focus is not what are we doing but what am I doing. If all these questions can’t be answered by both parties then yal are strategically moving alone and don’t even know it. Sometimes one person KNOW they are moving alone but the other individual (SLEEP)may think they are moving together but have been moving alone all this time. Funny thing is the SLEEP individual must soon awaken and when they do….lol o’boy!
Nancy and Jim
Nancy and Jim had been together for 11 years. Jim was a Police officer and Nancy was a homemaker. Jim would come home always angry and he would make sure he slapped Nancy at least once a week. We had ladies night once a month. Nancy had become accustomed to telling us the reason Jim beat her ass. We kept telling her that she didn’t deserve that nigga treating her like that but Nancy continued to be in that relationship with that hoe ass nigga. I almost cut Nancy ass off cause I ain’t want that “ass whoopin” energy to fall upon me!🤣 I just ignore them black ass eyes cause I loved my girl.
To make a long story short, Nancy woke up one morning KNOWING who she was. Jim bitch ass came home later that day and raised his hand to Nancy and that bitch said… “BITCH IF YOU HIT ME ONE MO TIME YOU GOING TO MEET YO MUTHAFUCKin MAKER” That pussy nigga lowered his hands and never hit that bitch again!
Nancy didn’t want to leave him and she always said that nigga loved her but we was like love don’t look like that. Nancy told him what she was accepting and what she wasn’t accepting and she stood firmly on that shit. Nancy made boundaries for herself. She went out and found her a job and put her children in daycare. happy to report that Nancy found out she didn’t like working for anyone so she created her own business and made Jim her employee. They are still married and Nancy have a chain of salons and a Poppin online ecommerce.
Moral to all this shit is .. Ask yourself what are YOU doing?
If yal aint
Smiling, talking about the future, traveling, making love, creating new shit making business moves, providing a service to one another, making money
Then, WHAT IN THE FUCK ARE WE DOING IN EACH OTHER PRESCENCE?
Focus on You first
Tweet
Leave a Reply